1 Cor 16:14 Let all that you do be done with love.

This scripture depends more on you than it does on others.
It’s easy to love the loveable.
It’s difficult to love the obnoxious, mean, harsh, obstinate, horrible… I could keep going!
It’s hard to love someone that doesn’t want to be loved.
Doing everything with love will make you friendly.
It makes you aware of your surroundings.
You will become more courteous and charitable.
However, you must always be on your guard because someone somewhere will disrupt your path and life.
That will tempt your anger to flare up and lash out.
At that moment you must make a conscientious effort to keep on loving.